Alternative dancing studio thrives in Madison Heights

By DAUD YAR and NICHOLE SEGUIN
Posted: Tuesday, November 9th, 2010 at 8:43 pm | Last Updated: Tuesday, November 9th, 2010 at 9:57 pm

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PoleFIT Revolution, a fitness studio in Madison Heights, celebrated its grand re-opening and expansion by throwing a “Girls Night Out” party on Nov. 6. The event, sponsored by Zumba Mexican Grille and Zodiac Vodka, featured dancing demonstrations, door prizes, raffle prizes, appetizers and refreshments.

The studio offers mainly pole dancing classes, but a recent addition of space means there will be aerial yoga classes offered as well.

Melanie Pagel, Owner of PoleFIT Revolution, has been in fitness and health for 13 years as a personal trainer, Pilates and yoga instructor.

“A lot of women need an outlet for fitness that also makes them feel sexy and sensual,” Pagel said. “Pole dancing ends up being everything in one, in terms of exercise.”

Charley, head instructor, has been with the studio since July 2010. She said pole dancing takes a lot work.

“If you don’t want to go a gym, this (pole dancing) is a great way to build your strength, stamina and flexibility,” Charley said.

Shadow, a competitive coach and instructor, is the newest employee at PoleFIT. She adds experience to the business, as she is No. 2 ranked pole dancer in the world.

“Pole dancing is almost better than the gym because with every move, you target almost every muscle in the body,” Shadow said.

Miranda Tully, a student, has been taking classes at PoleFIT Revolution for the past five months.

“The classes are really good,” Tully said. “They improve flexibility and strengthen the upper body as a whole. Plus, they encouraged me more. It’s a great way to meet other women.”

Cheryl Willard, professional photographer for the studio, started taking classes earlier this year and loved the atmosphere and exercise so much, she installed a pole in her own home.

“I leave a pole class feeling like I got a great workout,” Willard said. “At the gym, you have your headphones ionand you’re not interacting with each other. Here, you are interacting with everybody and feeding off their energy. Everyone is pushing you and being positive.”

To protect its students from injuries, the instructors teach exits first before moving onto the floor.

“We’re the only school that uses crash mats and spotters, as far as I’m concerned,” Charley said. “The first thing we say to new students is ‘this is going to hurt, but here’s what you do when you fall.’”

She said most beginners start off by walking and spinning around the pole and students are not allowed to perform until they work with instructors on exit strategies.

Apart from the exercise, PoleFIT prides itself on the environment that it creates for its students. A sign hanging above the front door reads:  “Leave your inhibitions at the door.” That phrase embodies the atmosphere in the studio.

Charley said the sign saying “leave your inhibitions at the door” is appropriate because they are all sisters there.

“Climbing up a pole and being able to suspend yourself by one thigh, wearing six-inch shoes is empowering,” Charley said. “It’s women supporting women, that’s the best part.”

While the standard attire for pole dancing is booty shorts and sports bras, new participants usually wear sweatpants and T-shirts, she said.

“For most women, it is very scary to get down to that little of clothing,” Shadow said. “I don’t care how big you are, small you are, strong you are, or how weak you are, you’re beautiful, and we’re going to work together to meet whatever goals you have.”

The instructors are very flexible with everyone’s skill level, said Willard.

“These classes are for the everyday person,” she said. “Pole dancing is something that I think almost every female has somewhat of an interest in trying”

In addition to the pole dancing classes, the studio also has an airbrush tanning studio, pilates classes and hosts pole dancing parties. Men may  also sign up for classes.

For more information on the classes and the studio, visit www.polefitrevolution.com.

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  • Craig

    My girlfriend and several of her friends recently took an advanced class at Pole Fit Revolution and there were no crash mats. Also the owner took several lessons from Pole Addiction Studios in Ferndale prior to starting her own business and her instructor was the owner of the pole studio in Lake Orion.

  • Jessica

    My name is Jessica Reynolds and I own Pole Addiction Studio in Ferndale Michigan, The first pole dancing studio in Michigan. I am where Melanie owner of Pole Fit started pole dancing with Elona now owner of Wonder women Pole Studio when Elona was a teacher for Pole Addiction. Pole Fit is not the only studio that uses crash mats and spotters. As a matter of fact I wrote an entire chapter in my pole dancing business manual on spotting. Spotting is also highlighted my e-book. Vixen Fitness in Detroit uses spotters, Pin-up Pole dancing out of East Lansing uses spotters, Wonder women Pole Studio in Lake Orion uses spotters and crash mats, World of Pole in Garden City uses spotters. And of course over the last 6 years Pole Addiction has used both spotters and crash mats.

    Also Yoga pants are NOT dangerous for pole dancing for beginners and a beginner should never be told they are going to “FALL” that is a studio I would run from. If you are not at a level that you can progress to a pole mount or invert without a crash mat then you should not be doing that particular move. You are to use a spotter until you can do the move without a spotter and then use a crash mat if there is no one around to help you. You can still be seriously injured.

    I am extremely disappointed in this article as it portrays a lot of false and misleading statements.

    Always make sure you are being spotted (hands on body) when climbing or inverting and not relying on a crash mat to save your neck.

    Also Maria Escalante from Argentina is the number 2 pole champion of the world.

  • Linda

    What? Are you serious?!!!! No wonder why students from this studio can’t dance. I’ve been to the pole show event at Augie’s and the girls from Vixen Fit or something dance way better. I have been pole dancing for years and never been to a studio, but I’m glad I never had an pole teacher tell me “this is going to hurt, but here’s what you do when you fall.’” come on seriously???? I’ll stay way from this studio.

  • Patricia Pelto

    I find it somewhat interesting how this company offers products after we implement at our studios? We do the hard work, research, write courses and they toss them in after we launch on our sites??? World of Pole – Garden City is one of the original founders of Pole Parties/Classes (following Pole Addiction) in Michigan and this part of the country. All of our classes (Pole/Trapeze and Aerial) do use spotters (mattes if requested).
    I was furious to read that they tell students “Pole Dancing is going to hurt”!!! How can that be empowering? We don’t hurt our students and our courses are specifically designed to prevent any bruising, prevent pole burns, need for CRASH MATTES or inflict any pain.
    We welcome all sizes, shapes and physical abilities, encourage them it is for all and our classes are the only proven to increase total body body strength and prepare for more advanced moves on the pole. Our courses are strategically designed to build and tone while introducing new moves to our students.
    PLEASE research any Pole Dance Studio, check dredentials and be certain where they were trained and most of all be sure no pain is involved other than the old fashioned awakening of muscles.
    I don’t think the US even has a # 10 in the world best Pole Dancer???

  • Shay

    I am sorry I have taken lesson at Wonder Women Pole Studio in Lake Orion since they opened off and on and we have always had Spotters and Crash Mats.

    I quote ““We’re the only school that uses crash mats and spotters, as far as I’m concerned,” Charley said. Un-Quote” I could not believe it when I read this because Charley has been to Wonder Women Pole studio before and has seen with her own eyes that the owner has Spotters and Crash Mats. Shame on you Charley for telling down right lies.

    Another Quote~“The first thing we say to new students is ‘this is going to hurt, but here’s what you do when you fall.’End of Quote~ I’m sorry if your letting me know right from the start that your going to let me fall, I will not be taking classes with you Charley or at Pole FIT Revolution. I want to know I have someone that knows what they are doing that is teaching me.

    Shame on Melanie Pagel, Owner of PoleFIT Revolution in Madison Heights for posting and allowing post to me posted that are false. You call yourself a Pole Family well I want no part of a Pole Family that straight up lies to seek revenge on other studios.

    Anyone please come check out the Honest Studio I attend, its a great time, the owner and Instructors are wonderful and its a great work out.

    http://WWW.wonderwomenpolestudio.com

    It is located in Lake Orion , Michigan
    Wonder Women Pole Studio
    790 S. Lapeer Road
    Lake Orion, MI 48362
    Phone: (248) 693-4300

    Shay

  • candy

    I have to say I checked out a few of these places before I went, and I went with Wonder Woman Pole Studio, and I have always had 2 spotters on my inverts. We have mats, but with our spotters, I didn’t need the mats, I don’t want anything to hurt at all, if I’m going to dance/excercise classes. I’m glad I have some wonderful instructors.

  • Barb

    I have been to Vixen Fitness off and on this year and they have wonderful EXPERIENCED pole dance instructors. They have a very safe way in my opinion in teaching you how to do one the most difficult tricks (for me flippin upside down…..lol) She spotted me when I learned and she definitely didn’t say it was going to hurt or that I was goin to fall….if that’s the case I wouldn’t do it. I have heard some things about the others studios and have been to only 2 in Michigan. However, I serious feel more sexy and empowering if I can dance as well as spin and do tricks. Vixen Fitness to me is a well rounded business and I would rather go there than any other studio. I do believe the others studio are safe with their teaching technique but to claim something you have no solid proof of what goes on in other studios is silly and bad for your own business.

  • Charley

    I am responding to this as Charley and NOT as PoleFIT Revolution.

    I would like to explain that I am misquoted a couple of times here and The last quote attributed to Shadow was actually MY quote.

    First of all, I never meant to infer that other studios don’t use safe practices I wanted to explain how important safety is to ME. I never said no one else uses crash mats. I also mentioned how all of the studios work together which never made it into the article.

    Secondarily, I have never opened a class saying “this is going to hurt.” The quote “this is going to hurt, here is what you do when you fall” are 2 separate statements about 2 separate things.

    First – “This is going to hurt” I do tell students where they may experience pain and discomfort when doing movements. Sitting on a pole can be painful – I want my students to understand this. I also do discuss exiting out of poses. This is extremely important to me. You don’t get to an advanced level without falling. We have students have who have poles at home – I am not there to spot them. I always tell students not to do advanced moves without an instructor present however I don’t follow them around all day. I want them to know how to protect themselves. The entire statement “This is going to hurt, this is what you do when you fall” was never stated like that nor in one sentence.

    I have nothing but respect and have been nothing but respectful to other studios. As many people know it is easy to be misquoted and it’s difficult to write articles after the fact when you are writing down information extremely fast as people are talking.

    I am a certified instructor through Empowerment Through Exotic Dance which is a highly respected certification and I take that certification seriously and would never do anything unsafe which would not only negatively effect me but also ETED.

  • Mary Ellyn Weissman

    Wow…..I am sorely disappointed in the responses to this article.

    Most of the people on here know Charley VERY well – know how hard she has worked to unite pole dancing in the Michigan area, in addition to the Midwest and not one single person questioned her BEFORE responding here?

    Even before I read her response I knew it was misquoted.

    I’m certain that all of you MUST appreciate that I would give you the benefit of the doubt before I’d start to crucify any of you!

    Hasn’t anyone ever heard of a reporter misquoting (both accidently and intentionally) someone they interviewed? Is everyone LOOKING for a reason to bash Charley?

    I know if anyone, Danielle, Elona, Jessica etc had been quoted saying such grossly over the top statements I’d very likely question the source before I questioned someone I KNOW! Someone I’ve witnessed working hard to unite us.

    What good would it do Charley to say things like this? It’s obvious that either this reporter didn’t udnerstand or was inexperienced and pulled the article together wrong after he/she got back and wrote it.

    After all of that….Pole dancing hurts. Get over it. How you present it to your students makes the difference. They can and they WILL bruise. That’s a fact.

    Will the fall? Damn straight. At some time everyone does. Anyone who uses a crash mat KNOWS this otherwise why is the crash mat there? So they can take a nap?

    Some schools feel strongly about NOT using a crash mat and while I disagree, I understand the reverse logic. All of us do everything we can to avoid incidents and falls of any type whether with a crash mat or not but anyone who believes a student won’t fall if you “teach them well” is fooling themselves. Are all of you saying you’ve NEVER fallen? Well I know a lot of really great world-renowned pole dancers who have fallen so how do you explain that?

    You have to address this, appropriately at the right time in class and your students must respect that this isn’t a playground game but something that deserves respect. Which I know is just what Charley does!

    Again – I’m sorely disappointed that everyone believed an unknown STUDENT journalist’s report before they did their friend!!!

  • Valerie

    Wow I can’t even believe the responses to this. As someone who knows Charely personally I’m amazed that anyone would believe the things quoted in this article would be accurate! Charley and I have had many conversations about pole dancing studios and the one thing you will always hear out of her is that she believes in supporting other studios and working together as a community. Charley is so not the type of person to say Polefit is the only safe studio out there. I owe a studio in Columbus, Oh and we both share the same beliefs on safety, proper progressions and conditioning of the muscles. Also, to all the people scoffing at telling students pole dancing will hurt and that at some point your going to fall….get over yourselves! Pole dancing does leave bruises and many moves when your learning them are uncomfortable and hurt. I have been pole dancing for over 8 years and I’ve fallen before and as I tell my students at some point it will happen. Your going to have a moment when you get a little cocky and forget to think about what your doing and then you fall. It happens to the best of us and its irresponsible as an instructor to not explain to students the dangers of the sport. Charely is a wonderful instructor and advocate for the pole community and deserves the opportunity to have her side heard. Also, insulting students publically is disgusting! Pole dancing in public takes a lot of guts and I was at that showcase and saw many first timers perform. They were nervous enough and deserve our support and repsect for just getting up there! I hope those of you who chose to insult them realize these ladies may see this and now feel self conscious and hurt…..way to build someone up.

  • Shay

    I agree reporters can add, subtract, to articles but not the whole article.

    And I don’t recall seeing a post from a Danielle, or Elona on here at all.

    Happy Poling

  • Melanie

    WOW! I can’t even begin to express my heavy heart and overwhelming sense of disappointment after reading these posts (Thank you Mary Ellyn for showing some real humanity and being a true friend and professional). I am the owner of PoleFIT Revolution and many of you have been to my studio, attended my pole jams, national presenter workshops, ridden on the coat tails of our promotional efforts, and acted like you cared but now I’ve seen some sheep in wolf’s clothing.

    Even worse many of you have acted like Charley’s friend and to dissect one poorly written segment that was obviously misconstrued out of an otherwise positive article talking about sisterhood and having fun while getting healthy is just beyond me and completely unprofessional and disgusting. With the support of PoleFIT Revolution, CHARLEY has worked so hard to unite the pole community in Michigan and this is how she is treated…SHAME ON YOU! Correct me if I’m wrong but none of the studios that are lashing out here and where “Here 1st” made an effort to “try” to bring all pole enthusiasts together before PoleFIT Revolution opened and CHARLEY was brought on board…she should be commended. Anyone who posts insults about bad dancers at our showcase should not even bother attending because those showcases are designed to give all pole enthusiasts…big & small, beginner & advanced a platform to perform and HAVE FUN…it’s a SHOWcase…not a competition and every performer should not feel threatened or bullied by ridicule. This is such childish behavior…my 3 & 5yr old have more tact.

    Also I KNOW how Charley teaches, I for one have actually been in her classes and she does not say “this is really going to hurt let me show you how to fall”. She does however not hide the fact that some tricks can be painful and discuss exit strategies while PROGRESSING students in a safe and effective manner. We always tell a person how to get out of something before they are in it…it’s the responsible thing to do. If you don’t get bruises or raspberries or even a blister or two at some point then you must be superhuman…congrats. At PoleFIT Revolution we use building blocks for every challenging move and we teach such a huge variety of moves and variations our students are more then ready to progress when the time comes that we may bring out a crash mat.

    Those who want to question my credentials or my studio and never took the time to know what I’m about…let me enlighten you. I did take some classes at PA with Elona when I had an interest in pole dancing (I was already trained in cardio striptease which I loved and brought to LTF), Elona was a small slice of my educational path of pole dancing which I do not discredit…Elona and Shannon from WWPDS took my PoleFIT class before they offered it at their studio…WHO CARES! I am a fitness professional and have been working in the health & fitness industry for over 13 years…it’s all I’ve ever done as an adult. Large companies such as Life Time Fitness, LA Fitness, Bally’s, & Franklin Athletic Club have all employed me to MANAGE and DEVELOP fitness programs and instructor teams for their companies because I know fitness, business, and I’m great with people and management. I was also recently hired by the Mayor of Dearborn as a Fitness Consultant to help improve their program at the Community & Performing Arts Center because of my proven track record. You want CREDENTIALS…how about ACE, AFAA, & AEA Certified Instructor, NASM Certified Personal Trainer, 200hr. Yoga Teacher, & PEAK Pilates Professionally (That’s the 900hr training) Certified Trainer…when you know fitness like I do you can take any format and make it successful…I bring my yoga, pilates, and fitness background to the pole which is my “thing”. I have been in gymnastics and cheerleading, also as a coach, at a competitive level so I know a thing or two about safety, spotting, etc. I also work at a Therapy office using my knowledge so no need to question my abilities to keep the human body safe and healthy. I don’t claim to be the best pole dancer in the world but I am a good one AND I’m a darn good…let’s say GREAT fitness trainer otherwise I wouldn’t have the clientele that I have. I also know to hire amazing pole dancers and instructors like CHARLEY & SHADOW, and other fitness professionals that make our PFR team strong and successful.

    PoleFIT Revolution just expanded from 900sq. ft. to 2700sq. ft. You don’t do that kind of growth if you don’t know what you’re doing just a little. Anyone who says they wouldn’t take a class at my studio based on one article and these nasty comments…it’s really unfortunate…I assure you would leave learning something new with a smile on your face and an amazing workout.

    Response to a few other comments…
    #1…Patricia claims she did the hard work and we just add the product…You have no idea my experience and education and the fitness programs I have developed…it’s just they are corporate property. I didn’t even know you re-opened your studio let alone added trapeze or aerial but what does that matter? I’ve been a yoga instructor for over 10 years and I’ve logged probably over 1000 hours of teaching yoga of all disciplines…Aerial Yoga is very natural to me, I am so pleased to be able to share my knowledge with others with our new Aerial Yoga program.
    I think it’s great that some of you have written books/manuals but you didn’t invent pole dancing or pole parties just like Bally’s or Powerhouse didn’t invent the squat or the bench press…I haven’t read your books but I’m sure it’s your interpretation of the sport and not the sacred rule…there are many manuals and videos out there and I’m sure there will be more. You are always going to have competition so stop acting surprised or offended that there are other studios out there. We all have something unique to offer and if you really know me and Charley you know what my studio offers and how we present our program.
    #2…Whoever’s “girlfriend” took an advanced class at PoleFIT Revolution must not have been at my studio because we have never offered an advanced class besides our pro workshops who are rented out by pole competitors such as Wendy Traskos, Karol Helms, and Pantera…whether they chose to use crash mats is their choice. BTW I think it’s crazy that I’m still talking about crash mats.
    #3…The part where Shadow is named #2 in the world is again a reporter’s misinterpretation of the fact that Shadow IS #2 with IPDFA which IS an International Association/Competition and an extremely high honor and accomplishment achieved by very few.(Give the reporter a break…this is a foreign topic for them and they are students…I do THANK THEM for their time and efforts).

    I LOVE YOU CHARLEY & SHADOW!!! You Both Rock!!!

    Sorry for the long winded response but thanks for reading it;-)

    Melanie Pagel
    Owner – PoleFIT Revolution
    http://www.polefitrevolution.com

  • Rena

    I realize the statement that everyone is flipping out about was taken out of context, but first off, poling DOES hurt, so don’t act like it doesn’t!!!!!!! When learning new moves and new holds, it almost ALWAYS hurts like hell!! So what’s the big deal about saying it will hurt? HELLO, IT DOES!!!!! And second off, you WILL fall at some point in time if you stick with it long enough!!!!!! For me, since I’ve been self taught for the most part, I look for a way out of a move incase it goes wrong, or walk myself through it slowly at first so if I do start to fall, I know how to get out of it safely. Yes this is not always the case when you are at home byself w/ no spotter, but so far it has helped protect me from some scary falls! So before you start freaking out and bashing people, you should A) think about who this is coming from, and how things can be taken out of context easily and B) think about who supposively made these statements, Charley is the sweetest person ever and is a damn good poler and instructor!

  • Kristen C

    I agree with Mary Ellen. We all should take a little advice from this whole experience. First of all, Michigan studios should unite and not compete; pole dancing was created to bring people together and not to fight for who is the best studio. Also I’ve been to PoleFit and it is a wonderful environment for women to learn and have a great time, I’ve never felt unsafe or like I wasn’t being treated fairly. And Charley’s quote “This is going to hurt”… Uh HELL YEAH it’s going to hurt! The consistent pole burn from trying new tricks is enough to make even the strongest man or woman run in the other direction. And also “You are going to fall” well yeah that is absolutely true too. I taught myself for nearly a year at home now, so I know damn well how easy it is to hurt yourself. Installing false confidence in your students is only endangering yourself; I think it is great to tell your students how dangerous pole dancing truly is.

    I come from a place of pride with my pole dancing. I don’t believe just anyone off the street can become an amazing pole dancer. It takes strength, courage, confidence and most of all an extremely high pain threshold. Not everyone has what it takes to deal with the pain and difficulty that advanced pole brings.

    So… I’m done ranting, now all I have to say is I am also a Michigan Pole Dancer. I teach at a Studio in Traverse City, and I have been to places who practice unsafe techniques. I know the women from Wonder Women, Vixen, and PoleFit and I believe they all run incredible businesses that are unique in their own special way. So the studio you like the most is the studio that you probably feel most comfortable in, that is completely your choice. Reporters are known for misquoting people so I think we should all take a little piece of advice from this article, and learn not to judge other pole dancers so quickly; after all, were in this together as a community.
    <3 K

  • Miranda

    I am a current student at Polefit Revolution and was in attendance at the grand re-opening where this interview took place. I was thrilled when I saw that the studio was going to get a little publicity, and even volunteered to be quoted in the above article. After reading this article, however, I am terribly disappointed in its accuracy and its journalistic quality. I was sure to give slow, concise and clear quotes for the student reporters, as someone who has been a student in this field. My quotes do not match the pieced-together quotation above. This is a minor issue that I would be happy to overlook if they had done the studio, and their publication, justice by correctly quoting the instructors and owner. The intention of the piece was not to create a rivalry between studios and turn empowered instructors into misogynist stereotypes; it was supposed to be a piece to shed a positive light on a dance studio local to this university.

    As a busy woman with a stressful office job, there are few things I enjoy more than dancing at Polefit Revolution. It is not just a great way to exercise; it gives me confidence and has given me a network of wonderful female friends. Melanie, Charley and Shadow are certified, professional instructors who have never let me attempt a trick before I was physically and mentally prepared. They are realistic about the fact that pole dancing works new muscles and metal poles aren’t kind on the thighs when first learning to sit/extend on the pole. I appreciate that they inform new students that you may be sore when starting out. Furthermore, I have never been allowed to attempt a trick on the pole without a crash mat or spotter. I apologize if I seem aggressive about this, but when people I care about are attacked due to misinformation I will act. I hope that people will look beyond this article and give Polefit Revolution a chance. It has exceeded my expectations and will surely exceed yours.

  • Serzi

    All I have to say is that people need to look at this article for what it is. Did anyone else catch the obvious discrepancies of dates, titles, and statements? It was very obvious to me right from the get-go that what is common knowledge to us Detroit area pole dancers was confused by this author. (i.e. The date Charley started working for PoleFIT; Shadow’s international title; quotes that seem misinformed and otherwise choppy; etc.)

    Honestly, why do people give media so much credibility when public and professional knowledge of the topic knows it to be false? I understand that not every journalist is a pole-junkie, and certainly not every pole-junkie is a journalist either. It is easy for an interviewer to be confused by the information they receive if they are not given adequate time to research it or take it in before they are required to meet their deadline. This is a STUDENT newspaper, don’t take it to heart and use your brain before you fly off the handle.

    I am, however, very saddened by how many have commented so rudely with complete disregard for how this makes the pole community look. Particularly, Linda, the one who took her frustrations of this misinformed article out on innocent students of PoleFIT who had nothing to do with this. I too am a self-taught dancer, but I’ve never felt compelled to lash out and ridicule others who got the courage to dance publicly. I’m more disgusted by that statement than anything from this article. It makes our entire community look unfriendly, viciously competitive, and downright dirty…not to mention a laughing-stock!

    As pole dancers, professional and otherwise, we ought to be supportive of one another in order to thrive. We all know this, but still let business and public recognition get in the way. I’ll tell you one thing, this doesn’t discourage me from dancing in the least, but how many great dancers with incredible potential may have felt alienated by this? It’s bad for business, bad for morale, and overall sets us back as a community from achieving anything outside of our private lives. You want to make pole dancing something great, athletic, and clean? Stop being so vile, jealous, and opportunistic! Start sharing, educating, and being supportive to your fellow dancers despite your differences and opinions. Ladies, dance your hearts out, take any class you want, and anyone who doesn’t like it can SHOVE IT…you know where.

    Thank you. ♥

  • Lori

    I have but 1 comment :

    To: “Linda” Please dont take this the wrong way, but – Ive been a participant at both pole showcases & I would just like to invite YOU to come up and participate as well, since you seem to think it is ok to judge other polers so harshly. You had made mention that you pole dance & show an interest in it – & The showcase is open to ALL LEVELS of polers…. even if you can only walk, pirouette & fireman spin, **you are welcome to perform!**

    It takes COURAGE that most will never know to pole before a crowd of strangers. I understand that everyone is allowed to have their own opinions, and that is fine, but if your opinion is belittling another poler based off of what studio they may or may not be affiliated with, PLEASE KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. I have felt the sting of someones sharp-tongue judgement of my dancing ability (or lack, thereof) and I despised the way it felt… and I hold myself to a high standard of never doing the same to another poler.

    I am sorry (and you are welcome to dissent) but I truly, honestly believe that it was inappropriate to bring up the showcase and its participants into this “blog” in any way, shape, or form. It doesnt matter if you love/hate PoleFIT, Vixen, Wonder Women, ETC You are not hurting the studio or instructor by making such statements, YOU ARE DEGRADING THE INTEGRITY of the PERFORMER(S) & THE SHOWCASE ITSELF. We are ALL different dancers at different levels & the showcase is meant to bring us together & celebrate the fact that we all share one common passion- pole dancing – instead of using it at a format to rip others to shreds. I realize that by posting this I’m opening myself up to quite a few nasty comments, however I PERFORM in the showcase, I try my hardest to SUPPORT & ENCOURAGE my fellow dancers in a positive manner & I truly believe that we should do unto others as we’d like them to do unto us. ( Or, perhaps more fittingly – Those that dance on “glass poles” shouldnt throw rocks!)
    Namaste!

  • Jessica

    NO ONE was bashing Charley. The article was incorrect in MANY areas. Those areas were addressed and if Charley was misquoted then it is her and Melanie’s responsibility to correct the reporter who misquoted them and get them to write a response. My x husband is a journalist and I know how they are and what they have to do if a correction is to me made. I also personally worked at a college newspaper in my day and the responsibility to correct the errors are the interviewer and the interviewee. We all know Charley has worked very hard to get the Michigan pole studios together as one over the last year and appreciate her actions dearly. Something I tried myself in 2006 when there were very few of us. Channel 95.5 attempted in 2007 at the Coliseum with their stripper 101 competitions. The article supprised me but Charley you have a responsibility to make him correct it. I appreciate your response as a comment to correct the journalists “misquotes”. The studios that brought Pole Dancing to Michigan wanted to make sure the correction were at least provided. Melanie we are all proud of your accomplishments. But you also have a responsibility as a business owner to make sure your articles are correctly portrayed instead of waiting for the other stuidos to post or have their friends post for them. We ALL want to be united and we ALL teach in a safe and supportive manner. Which is why we support your showcases – not ride on the coat tails of your promotional efforts.

  • Melanie

    To Jessica,
    You continue to accuse me of doing nothing about the article when you know that you never gave me a chance to address it… you had already spread it around to local studios making fierce accusations and going on tangents that were way off the topic of the article. Instead I wish you would have come to me directly and it would have been resolved without all this unnecessary banter and for that alone you should apologize.

    The responses we gave to the article should have cleared up the misquote now and let’s be honest…one misquote about crash mats, or rankings would not have effected your business unlike the efforts you have made in the past to damage mine.

    Our studios are extremely different and students will get a completely different experience from each of us which is what is great about variety and choices. My studio program is nothing like what I experienced at your studio which is why I do not credit the 8 classes I took from an instructor that is no longer at your studio. Do you know how long it would take me to credit everyone I’ve ever worked with??? I don’t think 8 classes is enough to say I was really involved.

    My comment about riding on coat tails of my promotional efforts refers to the fact I am HURT. I spend my promotional dollars, and Charley spends a lot of time putting those showcases together and we GENEROUSLY credit every studio that attends. I even credited your studio when you jumped in the show without filling out the proper paperwork. Because of the relationships we “try” to build and the support we so obviously have given I expected more support in return and the benefit of the doubt when reading a misquote.

    I am proud of my growth and expansion and it saddens me that you have tried to put a dark cloud over it. My success is due to nothing more then a lot of blood, sweat and tears credited to myself and Charley…and a lot of sacrifice on my part. I love me new studio, I’m proud of all we’ve accomplished and I will continue making a difference in people’s lives and have FUN!

    PLEASE get your facts straight and rest assure that I know how to run my business and I have always been fair and professional. As far as I’m concerned this is over and if you wish to discuss further you can call me.

    Melanie
    http://www.polefitrevolution.com