Oakland University community reacts to student suicide

By Kay Nguyen, Rhiannon Zielinski
Posted: Wednesday, October 20th, 2010 at 2:00 pm | Last Updated: Thursday, October 28th, 2010 at 9:14 am

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Oakland University students, staff and faculty are gradually learning more about the student suicide that occurred Tuesday.

Members of the campus community are mourning the loss of Oakland University student Corey Jackson, 19. Students, staff and faculty were notified via e-mail around 7 p.m. Tuesday of an apparent suicide.

The OU Police Department began investigating the death of the residential student Tuesday, which occurred on campus.

The death has been confirmed as a suicide by the Oakland County Medical Examiner’s Office. Their investigation is now closed after determining the cause and manner of death.

“All indications point to the fact that the student chose to take his own life,” OUPD Chief Sam Lucido said Tuesday night.

OUPD has now confirmed and deemed it an official suicide. The investigation is ongoing.

“We want to find out every piece of information about anything … any circumstance that may be related to this situation,” Lucido said.

Students have organized a candlelight vigil in memory of the student scheduled for 10 p.m. Wednesday by the Bear Lake bridge outside Vandenberg and Wilson halls.

“I know, too, that we as a campus community will keep his family and closest friends in our thoughts and prayers,” OU President Gary Russi said in a letter sent out to students, staff and faculty.

“This is very sad news for the community,” Lucido said. “As Police Chief, I feel like all of these kids belong to me — I just feel terrible about this, as does the whole community.”

Jackson was a sophomore and a member of the Tau Kappa Epsilon fraternity. He lived on campus.

Though he never chose to formally initiate, he kept in close contact with members of TKE.

TKE President Nick McCormick wore a purple shirt today in remembrance of recent gay suicides. According to him, Jackson “had recently come out and seemed to be okay with it.”

“It seems that he had been despondent about personal matters,” said Oakland County Chief Medical Examiner Dr. Ljubisa J. Dragovic.

However, Dragovic explained that his office’s statutory responsibility was to determine a medical cause of death.

“I think the bullying may have something to do with it; maybe it was some negative support he may have gotten,” McCormick said. “If I had to give it a guess, the perception of his lifestyle might have had an effect on him.”

McCormick stressed that the TKE brotherhood is “about being open to each other” and that there has been an outpouring of support from the TKE and campus communities.

“I couldn’t believe what happened; I thought there was a huge misunderstanding at first,” said Carl Miller, a TKE member. “People should be more accepting of others. It would help.”

Anika Khan, a sophomore majoring in information technology, is close friends with many TKE members.

“I was so shocked that I couldn’t cry when I found out,” said Khan, who also noted she felt the resources of the Gender and Sexuality Center should be advertised more. “I was close to him, but I wish we were closer.”

Because TKE members were close with Jackson, they each honored his memory by wearing black ribbons that usually signify a brother’s passing.

“We have absolutely no indication at this time that bullying or harassment was part of this,” Lucido said. “Having said that, we’re also still conducting a very lengthy investigation.”

Those having difficulty coping with the situation have access to three fully-licensed psychologists at the counseling center inside Graham Health Center. Counseling is available on a walk-in basis. Information packets are also available.

“We have cleared as much time as we can here to talk to students today,” said Graham Counseling Center Interim Director David Schwartz. “It doesn’t have to be a formal appointment.”

In addition to more walk-in counseling availability, the center’s staff will be speaking with various classes and campus organizations through the next few days.

Students and community members who may have information relevant to the OUPD investigation should call 248-370-3333.

University officials will provide additional information as it becomes available and The Post will continue to report findings.

RESOURCES:

– Center for Student Activities Director Jean Ann Miller said crisis hotline numbers and other resources are available for students. Students can call the suicide hotline at 800-784-2433. Additional information can be found here.

– A list of warning signs regarding those who appear to be troubled can be found here.

– Graham Counseling Center: 248-370-3465

– Gender and Sexuality Center: 248-370-4333

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  • Vagner

    beAr lake like the mascot, not beEr like the drink….

  • CJ

    What an inappropriate place to have this conversation. My thoughts go out to the student.
    http://www.oakland.edu/?id=1611&sid=19
    See 1965.

  • Lisa

    My brother and a friend named it Beer Lake in when they were students at OU in 1965. I was there in the 70s and never heard it called anything but Beer Lake.

  • Kevin Reynolds

    Remember this?

    They came first for the Communists, and I didn’t speak up because I wasn’t a Communist.
    Then they came for the trade unionists, and I didn’t speak up because I wasn’t a trade unionist.
    Then they came for the Jews, and I didn’t speak up because I wasn’t a Jew.
    Then they came for me and by that time no one was left to speak up.

    I am not a lesbian, nor gay, nor bisexual, nor transgendered. I am however, an American, and so far as I can tell, all the LGBT’s who are being talked about these days are Americans too. In a melting pot, variety is the spice.

    Any group of people who advocates sameness, or any supposed “purity” is signing it’s own death warrant. You simply cannot cut yourself off from the rest of the world. History teaches that isolation brings vulnerability. In my solitude I can develop my skills. In my life with others I am forced develop my character. In this life “the same” never happens. In this life, you either grow or you die. I know it’s not always easy, nor in your personal opinion may it even be preferred, yet, none the less, it is the case that life is a challenge and your choice is simply to either accept it or fight it and if you choose to fight life and it’s progress, you will loose.

    There are two groups of people in this country. There are those who love this country and believe that community involvement is a good thing. There are those who would take us back to some imagined past they think was a better time than we experience now. Abraham Lincoln said “A house divided cannot stand” and I think he’s right about that. I vote for the country and my fellow citizens.

  • Alyssa

    Kevin Reynolds- I don’t know you, but based on your comment I think you’re brilliant. Very well said.

    I am so upset to hear of another suicide. Kevin already said things so well. The only thing I’d like to add is to tell Corey’s family & friends, I’m sorry for your loss.

  • Rachael

    I burst into tears reading this. That poor kid. Shame on whoever made him feel that this was the way to go.

  • Barbara

    I teach at OU and although I did not know this student, suicides are painful losses for the family and the community. I am especially disturbed if it was related to sexual orientation. We all need to practice tolerance and think before we speak.

  • Sharecka Wallace

    R.I.P. Corey….Loving you always and sorry you thought that this was the way to go…you will be truly missed……LOVE ALWAYS…your cousin Sharecka from Illinois

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  • Merra

    There is also no-cost counseling available at the Counseling Center in Pawley Hall, room 250. It is run by counseling students. They do an excellent job over there. Something to consider if one is unable to go to Graham.

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  • Amanda

    Common Ground also has some excellent resources for crisis,suicide, and survivors of suicide (family and friends of the victim).

    800.231.1127-call 24hours a day/7days a week to speak with a crisis counselor or seek information on their groups and resources

    My heart goes out to Corey’s family and friends. Please ask for help from those around you and those who want to listen.

  • Sue Crill

    My grandson is a freshman at OU; he just as informed last week of another suicide of a junior at his former high school, Allen Park HS, who hung herself. One of my best friends took her life at age 29…..please tell everyone you know to find someone to help them; this too shall pass & things do get better. If nothing else, think of those you leave behind and the holes in the hearts of those who loved you….suicide is a devastating loss for everyone….please seek help; it is out there..if you don’t get relief from one source, get with a friend & keep trying until you find something that works…NEVER GIVE UP.

  • Stephanie Weiss

    I work at the Child Advocacy Center of Lapeer County. We are having an Anti-Bullying Rally on October 1st and we are looking for parents of kids that have commited suicide directly related to suicide. Our community needs to be made aware of the problem with bullying with our children. Please contact me at your earliest convience 810-882-7513.